Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want

Jacket Description/Flap: Did you know that the outcome of most persuasive events is determined before you ever say a word?You may know how to sell, but you were probably never taught how to persuade. In this book, persuasion expert Dave Lakhani breaks down the persuasion process into easy-to-use steps. You'll learn not only how to persuade, but the biology and psychology behind persuasion. In business, persuasion is key to every aspect of sales, marketing, and negotiations. This book reveals today's most effective persuasion techniques for business professionals. While it focuses on the business arena, these principles of persuasion can easily be successfully applied in your personal life. Though the techniques are similar, Lakhani draws a hard line between persuasion and manipulation, with the primary distinction being intent. True persuasion is based in truth, honesty, inquisitiveness, and the ability to tell a powerful story and to meet the expectations of those you're trying to persuade. Good persuasion is a practiced art--a carefully orchestrated dance between you and the person you are persuading. In Persuasion, Lakhani teaches you the steps in that delicate dance, showing you how to apply proven persuasive principles to common business challenges. Inside you'll find: A map for the persuasive process, from beginning to endA set of persuasion tools and a blueprint for using themSeventeen specific persuasion tactics designed to instantly persuadeThe Persuasion EquationThe Six Tenets of PersuasionSteps for becoming a persuasion expert in just thirty daysQuick Persuaders-- tools you'll master and useevery dayThe book itself is exceptionally persuasive. It uses hard science to support its theories, citing the opinions of noted neuroscientists, psychologists, and influence professionals and features examples of persuasion at work in sales, copywriting, advertising, negotiations, and personal interactions. It shows you how to persuade your audience in small, simple steps that proceed to the desired result. Because today's prospects are sophisticated and technologically savvy, there's information on tech-savvy persuasion methods for use with Web sites, in blogs or teleseminars, or by Podcasting to a targeted audience. Learn exactly how to get your message through the electronic clutter facing decision makers today. If you've been successful, you've probably intuitively used some of these persuasion techniques before, but this book will mentor you through a dramatic increase in your ability to persuade. Imagine how successful you'll be when you know how to strategically layer on tactic after tactic to methodically and effectively break down natural resistance, increase the emotions of acceptance and desire, and move the prospect to the right outcome--the outcome you desire. Jacket Description/Back: Praise for persuasion the art of getting what you want"Dave has exposed the secrets of the most powerful persuaders in the world. This book is a step-by-step guide to changing minds and deeply influencing people in person, in print, on the air, or anyplace else you need to persuade. This book makes persuasion so easy and predictable that it may be the most dangerous persuasion book ever written . . . especially if it ends up in the hands of your competition."--Mike Litman, CEO, Connect To Success, Inc. and coauthor of Conversations with Millionaires "Dave Lakhani tells you everything you've just got to know about persuasion in this book. It is written provocatively, yet clearly. And it is sure to open your mind while enriching your bank account. I highly recommend it. Fasten your seatbelt when you read it. It takes you on a thrilling ride!"--Jay Conrad Levinson, "The Father of Guerrilla Marketing" and author of the Guerrilla Marketing series of books"Dave Lakhani understands persuasion like few do and is able to break the process down so anyone can understand and use it. I highly recommend this book to anyone who hopes to improve their ability to sell, market, advertise, or negotiate."--Chet Holmes, Fortune 500 superstrategist and author of the Mega Marketing, Business Growth Masters, and Guerrilla Marketing Meets Karate Master sales programs"Man, talk about persuasive. Dave convinced me to read and review his book, and I don't even like the guy."--Blaine Parker, author of Million-Dollar Mortgage Radio"Too few books actually put into practice what they promote. Dave Lakhani breaks the mold with this satisfying, powerful read."--John Klymshyn, author of Move the Sale ForwardBiographical Note: DAVE LAKHANI is the President of Bold Approach, Inc., a business acceleration consultancy. A successful entrepreneur, he is a popular speaker on persuasion, in- fluence, sales, marketing, rapid ideation, and business acceleration. Always alert to the latest means of reaching and persuading potential prospects, Dave writes a blog that gets more than 10,000 visitors a week. You can read it at howtopersuade.com. Table of Contents: Foreword by Jeffrey Gitomer. Preface. Acknowledgments. About the Author.1. Manipulation.2. Persuasion.3. Persona--The Invisible Persuader.4. Transferring Power and Credibility.5. Storytelling.6. Gurudom.7. Desire to Believe.8. Familiarity.9. Exclusivity and Availability.10. Curiosity.11. Relevancy.12. Permission Granting.13. The Quick Persuaders.14. The Persuasion Equation.15. Persuasive Selling.16. Persuasive Advertising.17. Persuasive Negotiating.18. Persuading the Masses Electronically.19. Mastering Persuasion--The Art of Getting What You Want. Persuasion Resources. Recommended Readings. Index. Publisher Marketing: Praise for persuasion the art of getting what you want"Dave has exposed the secrets of the most powerful persuaders in the world. This book is a step-by-step guide to changing minds and deeply influencing people in person, in print, on the air, or anyplace else you need to persuade. This book makes persuasion so easy and predictable that it may be the most dangerous persuasion book ever written . . . especially if it ends up in the hands of your competition."--Mike Litman, CEO, Connect To Success, Inc. and coauthor of "Conversations with Millionaires""Dave Lakhani tells you everything you've just got to know about persuasion in this book. It is written provocatively, yet clearly. And it is sure to open your mind while enriching your bank account. I highly recommend it. Fasten your seatbelt when you read it. It takes you on a thrilling ride!"--Jay Conrad Levinson, "The Father of Guerrilla Marketing" and author of the "Guerrilla Marketing" series of books"Dave Lakhani understands persuasion like few do and is able to break the process down so anyone can understand and use it. I highly recommend this book to anyone who hopes to improve their ability to sell, market, advertise, or negotiate."--Chet Holmes, Fortune 500 superstrategist and author of the "Mega Marketing," "Business Growth Masters," and "Guerrilla Marketing Meets Karate Master" sales programs"Man, talk about persuasive. Dave convinced me to read and review his book, and I don't even like the guy."--Blaine Parker, author of "Million-Dollar Mortgage Radio""Too few books actually put into practice what they promote. Dave Lakhani breaks the mold with this satisfying, powerful read."--John Klymshyn, author of "Move the Sale Forward"

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